Tuesday, May 3, 2016

BOOK - THE UNIVERSE IN A SINGLE ATOM by DALAI LAMA



WOW.  This was not easy reading in the beginning (because I'm not a Scientist), but after Chapter 3 I really became engaged. It's a short book (209 pages), but is packed full with insights and thought-provoking concepts.

I'm going to share some direct excerpts of what HIS HOLINESS THE DALAI LAMA wrote, in the hopes that you might be inspired to read this book, or at the very least, will be challenged to take some time after reading each excerpt below, to "ponder"........  reading each one slowly and deliberately, ok? Read these excerpts only when you are not rushed, because they might "make your head hurt" if you don't. Concentration is necessary. As a result, what he says may resonate nicely with you, as it did with me.


Pg. 4
   "..... it is clear that human beings continue to experience suffering, especially at the emotional and psychological level. The great benefit of science is that it can contribute tremendously to the alleviation of suffering at the physical level, but it is only through the cultivation of the qualities of the human heart and the transformation of our attitudes that we can begin to address and overcome our mental suffering."

Pg. 36
     "..... the fact that science has not proven the existence of God does not mean that God does not exist for those who practice in a theistic tradition. Likewise, just because science has not proven beyond the shadow of a doubt that beings take rebirth doesn't mean reincarnation ins't possible. In science, the fact that we have not so far found life on any planet but our own does not prove that life does not exist elsewhere."

Pg. 115
     "Regardless of how persuasive the Darwinian account of the origins of life may be, as a Buddhist, I find it leaves one crucial area unexamined. This is the origin of sentience - the evolution of conscious beings who have the capacity to experience pain and pleasure. After all, from the Buddhist perspective, the human quest for knowledge and understanding of one's existence stems from a profound aspiration to seek happiness and overcome suffering. Until there is a credible understanding of the nature and origin of consciousness, the scientific story of the origins of life and the cosmos will not be complete."

Pg. 120
     "Is consciousness a matter of degree? Does consciousness always need an object - something to be conscious of? What is its relation to the unconscious - not only the unconscious electrochemical events of the brain that are correlated with mental processes but also more complex and perhaps problematic unconscious desires, memories and expectations? Given the highly subjective nature of our experience of consciousness, is a scientific understanding - in the sense of an objective, third-person account - ever possible?"

Pg. 145
     "At the Mind and Life conference in Dharamsala in 2004, I learned of the growing subdiscipline of neuroscience dealing with this question, called "brain plasticity". This phenomenon suggests to me that traits that were assumed to fixed - such as personality, disposition, even moods - are not permanent, and that mental exercises or changes in the environment can affect these traits. Already experiments have shown that experienced meditators have more activity in the left frontal lobe, the part of the brain associated with positive emotions such as happiness, joy and contentment. These findings imply that happiness is something we can cultivate deliberately through mental training that affects the brain."

Pg. 156
     "It is important to stress here that, like the training of a physicist, the acquisition of mental skills is a matter of volition and focused effort: it is not a special mystical gift given to the few."

Pg. 167
     "I spent a great deal of time studying the distinctions between sensory experience and mental experience. A defining mark of sensory experience is its contingent upon a specific sense organ - the eye, the ear, and so forth. There is a clear recognition that each sense perception is distinct from the others and has an exclusive domain, so that the eye cannot access sound or the ear taste and so on.   ......Visual perception of an object can take place from a great distance, hearing a sound from a lesser distance, while the experience of a particular smell occurs within a still shorter range. In contrast, the remaining two senses - giving rise to gustatory and tactile experience - need direct contact between the senses and their respective objects.   ......The defining characteristic of mental experience is the lack of a physical sense organ."

Pg. 181
     ".....the distinction between emotions on the one hand and moods and traits on the other. Emotions are seen as instantaneous, whereas moods may last longer - even for a whole day - and traits are longer lasting still, sometimes carried for a lifetime. Joy and sadness, for example would be emotions which often arise out of a particular stimulus; while happiness and unhappiness would be moods, whose direct causes might not be so easy to identify. Similarly, fear is an emotion, but anxiety is its corresponding mood....."

Pg. 195
     "For me, one of the most striking and heartening effects of our knowledge of the genome is the astounding truth that the differences in the genomes of the different ethnic groups around the world are so negligible as to be insignificant.   .....It has also helped reinforce my sense of our basic kinship with animals, who share a very large percentages of our genome."


JOAN



Thursday, April 28, 2016

GIVING and RECEIVING COEXIST

I've been reading a book by DALAI LAMA XIV and it's REALLY, REALLY DEEP (should make for a very rich and interesting Book Club discussion). Quite honestly, a lot of it is almost impossible for me to understand and I'm challenged to really think through some of his concepts about Buddhism, Quantum Physics, Spirituality etc. Naturally it has me stretching my brain and thinking more deeply about "things" these days. 

Ok, maybe this concept is common knowledge, but I became mesmerized today thinking about how GIVING and RECEIVING COEXIST.  

If you are GIVING, someone is RECEIVING.  
If you are RECEIVING, someone is GIVING.
If someone GIVES to you, you RECEIVE. If you then GIVE it to someone else, he/she RECEIVES it. This can be a never-ending chain of positive events actually.

RIGHT?

Think about it........

You GIVE a HUG - he/she RECEIVES a HUG.
You GIVE a KISS - he/she RECEIVES a KISS.
You GIVE a DOLLAR - he/she RECEIVES a DOLLAR.
You GIVE a MASSAGE - he/she RECEIVES a MASSAGE.
You GIVE ADVICE - he/she RECEIVES ADVICE.
You GIVE a HELPING HAND - he/she RECEIVES a HELPING HAND.
You GIVE EMPATHY  - he/she RECEIVES EMPATHY.
And on and on..........

As you RECEIVE, someone is GIVING.  I like to think of this in terms of POSITIVE actions of course, but I'm really liking that this is a COEXISTING REALITY

It's a beautiful thing, really.


JOAN




Sunday, April 24, 2016

"CLOVER!!!" IS HAVING A BALL (pun intended)

"iFetch Too" is the BEST dog toy ever!!! Thanks to AUNT JANE's gift at Christmas, "CLOVER!!!" keeps herself totally entertained and mentally challenged, both INDOORS and OUTDOORS. Good for both of us.

We started out with the "iFetch", but that model is for small dogs and the tennis balls are TINY.  Not good for a GERMAN SHEPHERD DOG! Thankfully they designed one for regular-size tennis balls - "iFetch Too". Ahhhh......

"iFetch Frenzy" (multiple balls) is now available for small dogs. Perhaps by Christmas they will have an "iFetch Frenzy Too"AUNT JANE????

She chews through TWO TENNIS BALLS each day. They're advertised as TOUGH tennis balls for aggressive dog chewers - NOT. She's not even "aggressive" with the ball, but the rubber breaks inside and then she peels off the yellow cover..... and then it goes in the trash.  Thank goodness for AMAZON and bulk quantities.

Here she is entertaining herself.........




"CLOVER!!!" now knows WHERE the ball is going to come out and often catches it before it's launched.  If you watch to the end of the video, you'll see this.  




It's a mystery to me that she doesn't ALWAYS drop the ball in the correct place, smart as she is.......... 

JOAN


Friday, April 8, 2016

CARRIERES DE LUMIERES in PROVENCE, FRANCE

Yesterday I enjoyed lunch out with my cousin DENISE who mentioned that she loves my Blog. Awww...... nothing like a little positive reinforcement to make your day!

ONE of the things we discussed was PROVENCE, FRANCE - her trip there last year and my upcoming trip. Such a wonderful place, full of charm, good food, good WINE, country markets, boutiques, antiquities and beauty. I can't wait to be there again!!!

I was describing CARRIERES DE LUMIERES, near LES BAUX-DE-PROVENCE, which DENISE didn't have a chance to visit, so I promised her that my next Blog post would be all about it with many photos.

Last August, when I took my niece, her husband and their 3 children to France, we visited this magical place. It's an audio-visual experience in what was once a quarry, but transformed in 1976. Music plays while photos of paintings are continuously projected onto the smooth, almost 30 feet high (9 meters) limestone walls. To see the full display takes about an hour.

Arriving at CARRIERES DE LUMIERES.......





Last year they featured paintings by MICHELANGELO, LEONARDO DA VINCI, RAPHAEL: THE GIANTS OF THE RENAISSANCE.  It was spectacular.  Full color, repeated on all of the walls surrounding you.  Magnifique!!

My family is sitting in the far corner to give you a perspective of the expansive walls



And the visual comes alive on these walls......





Looking at the people in this photo gives you an idea of the size of the projected paintings and the length of the hallways.





Notice at the bottom of this photo, the ornate and colorful marble floors.



All of the walls have a painting projected onto it.  Seating is available for moments of concentration, reflection or rest. As you can see, there are several levels from which to view the paintings.



















After the show we explored more of the complex, some of which is outdoors. Voluminous!!







I wasn't very excited to learn that this year they will be featuring the works of MARC CHAGALL, because he isn't one of my favorites (IMPRESSIONISTS top my list). CHAGALL was a POST-IMPRESSIONIST artist and has been described as an EXPRESSIONIST (he paints what he feels) and most notably as a MODERNIST, incorporating several art movement styles.

After reading "LISETTE'S LIST" recently (thank you for the recommendation SANDRA!!), which explained a bit of CHAGALL'S style, now I can't wait to see his work projected in such a dramatic venue!!

If you get to PROVENCE, FRANCE (which I hope you do!), perhaps you'll be inspired to seek out this wonderful experience.

JOAN



Saturday, March 26, 2016

BOOK REVIEW - "WINTER GARDEN" by KRISTIN HANNAH (NO SPOILERS)



WOW...... 
WOW........... 
WOW...............

HISTORICAL FICTION is my favorite genre and I seem to be drawn to books about WWII - perhaps because this war ended just 7 years before I was born or perhaps because in school we were never taught anything about it. Could this be because it was all too "fresh"......?? Now it seems that there is an overabundance of WWII books. Is our generation searching for "answers"?? 

To find a book about WWII that takes place in RUSSIA, was a new slant for me - I was intrigued to read it. It's a story of love, family and strength-of-spirit under STALIN'S rule in LENINGRAD, RUSSIA. I'm embarrassed to say that I had to look up the location of LENINGRAD and was astounded to find that the city was called "LENINGRAD" from 1924 to 1991 when the name was then changed to ST. PETERSBURG.

I was physically and emotionally moved by this book. For 50 pages or so I think I forgot to breathe. Spell binding. Gut wrenching. I had about 80 pages to go and didn't want to put it down, but had to take a break for a small glass of wine, a deep breath and for my blood pressure to return to normal.

KRISTAN HANNAH is one amazing storyteller. She has the writing capacity to make the reader feel right in the environment with the characters. I had this same reaction when I read her 2015 "THE NIGHTINGALE"- also an excellent book that takes place during WWII but in France

Although the book was on my shelf for several years before reading it, I appreciate that my friend Bev recommended it, way back when. But, be warned, "WINTER GARDEN" is NOT a book for the faint-of-heart. This is a story that will stay with me for a very, very long time........... 

JOAN



Monday, March 21, 2016

WHO'S TRAINING WHO?? (or is it "WHOM"?)

CLOVER!!! is such a smart, creative and insistent girl.

At first I would scold her bad behavior, then I tried to ignore it. Now I get a kick out of it - most of the time......

Here's her standard routine to get my attention -  

If I'm on the computer or with my head in a book for too long and she hasn't been able to move me into "play with me time", she walks around the house and knocks over different items, one by one.  It's the same items every time.  I should probably pay closer attention to see if it's in the same order each time - THAT would be interesting.

Her favorite - a wooden, hand-painted vase on the bottom book shelf - 




A glass coaster from the wine room table - 


A wooden stool in the kitchen - 


A basket in the kitchen - 


She pushes open the revolving kitchen cabinet door - 


And pulls out the heater grates from the floor - 


Yes, she dropped THAT ball into THIS heater duct with her head tilting back and forth, back and forth, wondering when it was going to pop back out!

Wait a minute, scroll back..... did you notice the kitchen grate in the "stool" photo?


But look at this beauty..... how can I possibly get upset with this Girl??  

I'm sure you've figured out that SHE is training ME!!



Of course that's dirt on her nose.....  doesn't she look proud of her freshly dug hole?  

EI YI YI

JOAN



Wednesday, March 9, 2016

TURNING 60 (4 years ago)

When I was in my late 50's and approaching AGE 60 (!!!!!) I was literally "KICKING AND SCREAMING". And OK, I was also SWEARING........ 

  • HOW is it possible that I'd be in my 60's already?? 
  • Where did the time go? 
  • How much time do I have left?
  • My life is almost over, isn't it?
  • What do I want to do with the limited time I have left?
  • How can I turn this potentially negative and depressing event into a positive one?

So, inspired by something I read about a girl turning
30, I copied her idea.........

I created a LIST. 

A list of "60 THINGS TO DO AND SEE IN MY 60's"!!!

30 things in your 30's is 3 each year.  That means 60 things in my 60's will be 6 each year. As if you needed help doing the math..........  but you get the idea, I'd better get busy.

So I took a look at my list today and updated it. In 4 years, I've completed 19 of the 60. Let's see, 4 years times 6 things a year is 24.  I'M NOT ON TRACK!!  YIKES!!

I started off like a jackrabbit and completed 12 in 2012 (year 1).  
Then 2 in 2013.  
Then 1 in 2014.  
Then 3 in 2015.   Hmmm...........

Goals are good. They give focus.

DO have 2 things in the works for this year.  Oh yeah, I need to accomplish SIX THINGS don't I?!!

If you're a curious person (which I certainly am), you're probably wondering WHAT IS ON THAT LIST OF MINE?!  Ok, here is what I've accomplished so far:


1.  Visit Annency, France 2012 (04)
2.  Visit Nantucket again 2012 (05)
3.  Tour the Zappo's warehouse near Las Vegas 2012 (06)
4.  See Cirque du Soleil - "O" 2012 (06)
5.  See Jackie Evancho perform live 2012 (08)
6.  Tour Eastern Europe 2012 (09)
7.  Visit Prague 2012 (09)
8.  Visit Budapest 2012 (09)
9.  Take a River Cruise in Europe 2012 (09)
10. Visit Vienna 2012 (09)
11. Visit Saltzburg 2012 (09)
12. See Barbra Streisand Live in Concert 2012 (10)
13. Tour somewhere in Italy or Europe with Mimmo again 2013 (11)
14. Take a road-trip with WILLOW 2013 (12)
15. Tour Croatia with "THE GIRLS" 2014 (12)
16. Visit Monticello 2015 (07)
17. Do a wine tasting tour in VA 2015 (07)
18. Take my niece Shelby, Ryan and the kids on a decadent trip (France and Venice) 2015 (08)


Yup, in the first year (2012), I knocked off 6 of them in one trip to Eastern Europe.  I was motivated! And since my passion is travel, you can see that most of my items include visiting new places and experiencing new things. And I still have 6 open slots on my list if you want to share a good idea with me.

I love my list. I love what I've done so far and I love what I have remaining on my list. So you see, being "IN MY 60's" is a pleasant experience so far. It's all in one's perspective, isn't it?!

Maybe I need to eat that 3-DECKER ICE CREAM CONE and check THAT off my list this year.........

JOAN





Sunday, February 28, 2016

CLOVER!!!!!



Ahhhhh....... what a great puppy dog Clover is. She's becoming a spectacular companion. A few months ago, I wasn't saying this, as she was running me ragged being a "PUPPY"!!

People warned me......  DON'T DO IT!!  DON'T get a PUPPY.  A full-grown dog YES, but NOT a PUPPY.  I didn't listen and have really had my hands full with CLOVER!!!

Yes, her name is no longer "Clover", but has been changed to "CLOVER!!!". Can you hear that high pitched note from my mouth when calling her name?  I'll give you a few examples why..........


ACCIDENTS HAPPEN..........







MY READING GLASSES.  BOTH PAIR!!





MUDDY DOG PAWS...... 







BIG ENOUGH NOW TO SNATCH THINGS OFF THE COUNTER WITH EASE........





Naturally always looking for the positive in situations, I've decided that CLOVER!!! has come into my life to reinforce me some important lessons that I know I need to perfect:
  • Lose weight so I can bend down and clean muddy dogs paws, etc. with less back/knee pain
  • No more candy on the counter (or elsewhere)
  • Minimize the clutter and clear off all counter tops
  • File papers neatly away
  • Less time spent on the computer (more time with CLOVER!!!)

THANK YOU CLOVER!!!


Oh, and our FIRST SELFIE..........



JOAN





Thursday, February 25, 2016

GOING THROUGH SOME PAPERS

There's a PILE of papers that I've been meaning to go through one last time before I toss them. Papers from my father's files. He died 16 years ago and I have yet to throw them away. It's time.

I started a career working for my father as a salesperson in 1980 and just retired last year. Dad had a way with words and was an enthusiastic, encouraging and positive Manager.  Ok, sometimes he could be a bit harsh, but looking back, we each realized that there was often wisdom in his words, despite his "delivery". 

He gave many inspiring speeches thru the years and had a couple of favorite quotes and stories that he repeated. As I was going through his papers, I found TWO "nuggets" that I'd like to share with you. Perhaps you too will be "inspired".

WHAT YOU CAN DO, OR DREAM YOU CAN, BEGIN IT
FOR COURAGE HAS POWER AND MAGIC IN IT.
ONLY ENGAGE, AND THEN THE MIND GROWS HEATED:
BEGIN IT, AND THE TASK IS HALF COMPLETED.

---By Wolfgang Von Geothe via Woody Woodson

Ok, for full disclosure, I looked up this quote to confirm it, and the quote I found reads:
WHATEVER YOU CAN DO, OR DREAM YOU CAN, BEGIN IT
BOLDNESS HAS GENIUS, POWER AND MAGIC IN IT!
BEGIN IT NOW!
AND, there is controversy about whether or not this is truly a Goethe quote. Obviously Woody Woodson is to blame for using and changing the quote, not my dad. Hahaha. 

"MY ROBOT"

I have a little robot,
That goes around with me.
I tell him what I'm thinking, 
I tell him what I see.
I tell my little robot,
All my hopes and fears.
He listens and remembers 
All my joys and tears.
At first my little robot,
Followed my command,
But after years of training, 
He's gotten out of hand.
He doesn't care what's right or wrong
Or what is false or true.
No matter what I try now, 
He tells me what to do.

"You are a slave to your subconscious robot, which houses your all-important self-image."

Dad was big on psychology. I remember him reciting this poem at home when I was in high school, so when I found it in one of his speeches, I was excited to share it. It has a nice "lilt" to it, doesn't it? And the words are soooo true!!  Think about it.........

JOAN





Thursday, February 11, 2016

A SCARY MEMORY CAME TO ME TODAY

In 1986, I was in my early 30's and fairly new in the business of advising Business Owners about the succession of their business to the next generation. But, I was going on calls by myself at this point. 

One afternoon I was in Wilmington, DE having difficulty finding the business where I had an appointment. I accidentally turned up a ONE-WAY street to an opposing car (large Cadillac) coming right toward me. I made an immediate right into the parking lot of a deserted strip mall, to compose myself and look more carefully at the address on my 3x5 card.

Within a moment I realized, that pulled up next to me was the opposing car with an IRATE, VERY LARGE and IMPOSING black man behind the wheel, shouting at me to "GET OUT OF THE CAR!!". Stunned, I just looked at him and gently shook my head "No". He held up a BADGE and continued to SCREAM at me, "GET OUT OF THE CAR!!". I shook my head "No" again and pulled out of the parking lot to get away from him and hopefully to a more public place with plenty of people around. Thankfully it was still daylight.

He pulled up beside me AGAIN (on my right), and while driving was shouting and still shaking his BADGE at me. It was an unmarked car and at this point I was actually getting quite angry that a Police Officer would be treating me this way. I slowed down enough to read and write down his license plate number and decided I would march myself right into the closest Police Dept and make a complaint!

The entrance to a major highway was just ahead on the right (RT 95 going South). When he continued to go straight, I slowed down, got behind him and veered off onto that exit for RT 95. I felt a lot safer being on a major road and having left him back in the city, where I was unfamiliar.

I got off at the next exit and took myself towards the center of the city. As luck would have it there was a Police car pulled over and parked not too far in front of me. I stopped and asked if I could speak with him. I proceeded to tell him that I wasn't very happy with the way one of the Wilmington Police Officers had just treated me and wanted to make a complaint. He asked for the make and color of the unmarked car and the license plate if I had it, which I gladly handed over to him. He asked me to follow him into the center of the city to the Central Station.

Although I didn't know about GPS back then, I did have a cell phone (a HUGE one installed in my car console, if you can believe it) and while following him into town, I called the appointment to let them know that I had gotten lost and wouldn't be able to make it there that day.  We rescheduled.

When we pulled up in front of the WILMINGTON POLICE STATION, the Officer got out of his car and told me that on the way, he had run the plates on the car and that car didn't belong to a Police Officer. He asked if I had time to come in and look at some photos to identify the man in the car.

NOW, I got frightened and wondered where this was going to lead. He showed me about 10 MUG SHOTS and I quickly pointed to the man I had encountered. In the back of my mind I'm thinking, if this man has a MUG SHOT, he must have been arrested before. OMG!! 

He asked if I wanted to "PRESS CHARGES" and all I could think of was how LUCKY I had been to escape harm, how smart I was NOT to get out of my car when he flashed his badge, and then my imagination started going and I got SCARED and MAD - not only for myself but for my girlfriends who could have been in the very same situation.

YES, I wanted to PRESS CHARGES, with the hopes of stopping him from ever doing this again to a woman driving alone. 

YES, I wanted to PRESS CHARGES because who KNOWS what would have happened if I had responded to his demands. This man needed to be STOPPED!

YES, I wanted to PRESS CHARGES as an example to all of my girlfriends, of how they too should respond in a similar situation.

SoI TOOK HIM TO COURT.

Shaking while waiting to see his face again, I was semi-relieved when he didn't show up the first time. The trial was rescheduled.

I had even more time to think and let my imagination run wild and was even more scared to see him in person the second time. I asked my FIANCE to come with me for support, but "he had other plans that day at the shooting range" (er... at his old girlfriend's place was more like it, although I was just starting to put two + two together at this point).  His lack of support was one more reason why I would be DONE WITH HIM in the very near future!!  That's another story......

So, I arrived at the Courthouse alone.  I'm a big girl, I can do this....... I saw the guy come in and knew "this was it".  When he was called to the stand, he LIED and LIED and LIED. He said that when I drove up the ONE-WAY street, I was screaming profanities at him (he said all of them in Court too) and was giving him "the finger". He went on and on. When I took the stand, I told the TRUTH. I hadn't said one word to him, but only shook my head "NO".

I didn't find out that day, but he was found GUILTY and was charged. I never found out the full details of his sentencing, but I did find out that the BADGE he was carrying was to be used when he helped the Fire Police re-direct traffic when there was a fire. His BADGE was taken away. He also had been previously arrested for DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, which is why there were MUG SHOTS of him at the Station.

SOOOOO........ all of my friends learned from this situation that you DO NOT STOP FOR AN UNMARKED CAR, no matter how loud you are being yelled at to do so. You don't even have to stop for an unmarked car with a flashing bubble on top of the car. Instead, I hope you all know now that you should go to the nearest police station (if you KNOW where one is) or go to a lighted parking lot filled with people (like a WAWA or major store) and then contact the Police.

Today, with cell phones and GPS, we aren't as likely to find ourselves lost in a city where we aren't familiar AND we can now call 911 for help while driving. In 1986 less than 50% of the U.S. population had 911 service.


JOAN








Monday, February 1, 2016

DONALD TRUMP (a personal encounter/memory)





A little "background" before "the story"........

In 1980 I joined my father's business, which provided advice to owners of privately-held businesses. Having been a HIGH SCHOOL ART TEACHER for 4 years, I didn't know ANYTHING about finance or business (I was truly surprised to get the job - so, THANK YOU DAD!!), but I DID have a MASTERS in COUNSELING, which gave me listening skills.

In 1987 I was asked to join management - training new sales guys (yes, "guys", since it was a rarity to find a female in this business back then). My background in teaching made it a natural transition from my 7 years in sales.

Also in 1987 DONALD TRUMP published his book, "TRUMP - THE ART OF THE DEAL" - written by and about a very successful BUSINESS OWNER - our client profile. I read it with complete enthusiasm and shared it with "my guys" to help give them inspiration, a sense of confidence and drive. Ours was a "self-made-man" kind of business, and you needed mentors and BIG aspirations in order to succeed.

I was so impressed by DONALD and his book that I got up before the crack of dawn to drive to Atlantic City by myself for his book-signing - to stand in line for an hour or so, to have him sign my book and shake my hand. He looked me straight in the eyes. Yes, I was a bit (!!) STARSTRUCK and must admit that I've felt that way ever since the handshake and eye contact.

He dedicated the book to his parents. I liked that.  

The inside jacket cover starts with his quote, "I like thinking big. I always have. To me it's very simple: if you're going to be thinking anyway, you might as well think big."  I liked that too. It fit right into the attitude I wanted "my guys" to have.

The opening paragraph of the book says: "I don't do it for the money.  I've got enough, much more than I'll ever need. I do it to do it. Deals are my my art form. Other people paint beautifully on canvas or write wonderful poetry. I like making deals, preferably big deals. That's how I get my kicks."

And if you want to know how I got MY kicks, after I shook his hand, I handed him my business card and said that I would love to have the time to share some thoughts about business with him. No, he never called. But I called him! No, he didn't take the call, nor did he return it.  Ok, so I tried!!

With DONALD TRUMP in the news daily, running for President, I can't help but reflect on those days back in 1987.

JOAN





Thursday, January 14, 2016

WAXING KARA

Do you remember the Blog I posted back in March 2015 about dry skin and the wonderful products made with HONEY that I found from WAXING KARA

In the FALL I ordered some of her yummy HARVEST scrub that had the delicious scent of PUMPKIN + SPICE + WALNUTS, made especially with the smells for the season. A great way to start your day in the shower!  I loved it so much I bought several more to hand out to a few special people. It's over for the season, but I noticed that she still has some, on sale for $21 (regularly $28) on her WEBSITE (click on this highlighted word).  


Her CANDLES are wonderful too, if you haven't tried them yet....... and NO, I'm not getting any kickbacks, nor am I in the business of advertising for her, I just LOVE what she offers and wanted to share.

I happened upon a video of KARA today (included in her January Newsletter ) that I thought I'd share, so that you can have a peek at KARA (she's adorable), and a glimpse at some of her products. ENJOY!!



AND....... if you signup to receive her MONTHLY NEWSLETTER (not daily, not weekly), you will then receive 10% off your first purchase!!  

DO IT.  CLICK HERE and BEE HAPPY!! ----->   SUBSCRIBE

JOAN
PS   Did you know that:
Honey will not expire. It is a sugar, and all sugars are hygroscopic, meaning they don’t contain much water in their natural state. Very few bacteria or microorganisms can survive in an environment like that. One thing that sets honey apart from other sugars, and makes it an excellent long-term resident in your cupboard, is its high acidity. The oldest honey that has been found dates back 5,000 years.